Keeping Score Requires Watching Both Teams

Advent Meditations “Forgiveness” What would it be like to go to a ballgame and be the “official score keeper” but you only watch one team? Imagine, let’s say a football game . . .  the opposing/visiting team scores a touchdown but no score goes on the...

Do people want to go out to eat with you?

Advent Meditations “Forgiveness” Years ago, I served on a very large staff, and one thing we’d do to build community would be to go out to eat together every week after a staff meeting. Off we’d go, sporting our church staff apparel. The lunches became...

Giving Up on Doing the “Chores!”

Advent Meditations “Forgiveness” Have you ever had chores that were a “MUST”  to do? Ones that you dreaded doing but they were expected so you had no choice but to do them? Recently I decided I would be ambitious and I would vacuum the blinds. I’d tried...

Love Gives Itself Away Over and Over Again

Advent Meditations “Relentless Love” As much as we like to think of West as an amazing “church,” it is also a business. We manage supply/demand, risk-benefit ratio, cash flow, etc. We have trends just as any regular business does. Typically we do a decent...

Who Wins When You Wrestle With Your Shadow?

The Disney character Peter Pan has a very unique shadow. At one point in the movie, Peter and his shadow chase each other around until Peter wrestles his shadow down so it can be sewn back onto his shoes. Sometimes our past chases us like Peter’s shadow chased him. We...

The Missing Dog

When Tom and I adopted Axel, I was determined that he was going to “attach” to both of us equally. Or . . . maybe me a little bit more! 🙂 Nevertheless, we both wanted to be really intentional about his bonding with each of us, our respective homes, etc. We...