The journey to Bethlehem was more than a physical trek for Mary and Joseph—it was a journey of trust, courage, and accountability. Culturally, their story was a scandal. A young, unwed woman, pregnant under extraordinary circumstances, and her betrothed, a man with every reason to walk away. Yet, they didn’t.
This week we’ve explored spiritual themes in Home Alone. One final theme I’d like us to explore is accountability. Kevin, despite the situation not being his fault, chose to defend his home against the burglars. He was willing to “own it” – stepping into the situation with courage, bravery, and faith. Similar concepts to the Christmas story.
Mary and Joseph chose to step into the unknown, not just carrying the weight of their literal journey but also bearing the judgment and whispers of those around them.
In many ways, they were held accountable for something they didn’t even do. Mary didn’t ask to carry the Messiah; she was chosen. Joseph didn’t cause Mary’s pregnancy, yet he chose to stay, to protect her, and to raise the child as his own.
In our world, accountability often feels like blame. We resist owning things that aren’t directly our fault. But Mary and Joseph show us a different way. Their accountability wasn’t about blame—it was about faithfulness.
Joseph could have divorced Mary quietly, preserving his reputation. Mary could have protested, Why me? Why now? But instead, they leaned into their calling, trusting that God had a greater purpose.
Accountability isn’t always fair. It’s not about what’s easy or convenient. It’s about choosing . . . faith over fear . . . obedience over comfort . . . love over self-preservation . . .
Imagine the rumors. The sideways glances. The questions Joseph must have faced:
- “How could you stay with her?”
- “What kind of man takes responsibility for a child that isn’t his?”
Imagine Mary, carrying not only the physical weight of pregnancy but also the emotional burden of misunderstanding. How do you explain an angel’s visit and a miraculous conception to people who can only see scandal?
Yet, they journeyed forward, together. They didn’t let the cultural challenges derail them. They didn’t let fear dictate their choices.
Mary and Joseph show us the power and importance of trust. Trust in God’s plan when it doesn’t make sense. Trust that the road to Bethlehem, though difficult, will lead to something beautiful.
Each step they took was an act of faith. Each mile traveled brought them closer to the fulfillment of God’s promise. They didn’t know how the story would unfold, but they trusted the One who wrote it.
We all face journeys where we feel accountable for things we didn’t cause. Maybe it’s stepping into a family conflict you didn’t create, shouldering responsibilities at work that aren’t yours, or navigating cultural pressures that feel unfair.
Mary and Joseph remind us that accountability isn’t about fairness—it’s about faithfulness. It’s about showing up, even when the road is hard. It’s about trusting God with the outcome, even when the journey feels impossible.
Reflection Questions
- Where in your life are you being called to take responsibility, even if it’s hard or feels unfair?
- How can you trust God’s purpose in the challenges you face?
- What steps of faithfulness can you take, even when the road ahead is unclear?
A Prayer for Faithfulness
Lord, thank You for Mary and Joseph’s example of trust and accountability. Help us to step into the journeys You call us to, even when they are difficult or unfair. Give us courage to take responsibility, faith to trust Your plan, and strength to keep moving forward. Remind us that every step we take in obedience brings us closer to the promises You have for us. Amen.
Mary and Joseph’s journey wasn’t easy, but it was worth it. Their faithfulness brought them to Bethlehem, where the Savior of the world entered into humanity’s story. This Advent, may we find the courage to travel our own journeys of trust and accountability, knowing that God walks with us every step of the way.
Grace and Peace, Andrea